In a relationship, as in everything else, we get what we believe and ask for. Actually what we feel we deserve!!
People in a relationship, be it soulmates, love relationship or friendship are always mirrors of each other in some way.
A relationship with another person is one of the most powerful tools we have for growth if we look at them realistically to see how
we have created them.
If you truly desire to have a deep fulfilling relationship, You have to believe it is possible. You have to believe you deserve it, them and love. And you have to treat you the way you want to be treated. Be the best you, you can be. (realize it is not that you do not deserve love but perhaps, this person is not reflecting the best you).
Below are some things you can do to help your relationship:
1. Look at your goals, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually
2. Take an honest (key word) look at what beliefs and attitudes you have about what is blocking YOU from having a deep relationship. Write it down–the reason I can’t have a deep relationship or friendship with _______ is—–no no not what they do, what you do.
3. Use affirmations and visual images to change the “scene” into a positive, loving one, Be willing to accept the good in you.
4. Use visualization to improve a difficult situation. Talking together, taking turns listening.
If we put ourselves or our prospective partner in a box with a label with the way it should be, it can be very confining and limiting.
Human relationships are very complex. They reflect our inner workings to help us to grow, it is not the partners job to heal or fix, only to reflect.
If the relationship difficulties continue, it is a sign to look deeper into ourselves.
Sometime Insight from an outside person can help you to gain some clarity.
Remember SOULMATES ARE MADE, NOT FOUND
Even if you feel you have found them, the relationship must be made.
Perhaps You are the soulmate you are looking for.
You deserve all there is, accept it
Psychic insight into Love, relationships to empower you to be the best YOU, can be
Lesson one – Success And Happiness Are For You.
No man has a right, unless he can not help himself, to remain where he will be constantly subjected to the cramping, ambition-blocking influences and great temptations of poverty. His self-respect demands that he should get out of such an environment. It is his duty to put himself in a position of dignity and independence where he will not be liable at any moment to be a burden to his friends in case of sickness or other emergencies, or where those depending on him may suffer.
Prosperity begins in the mind and is impossible to achieve with a mental attitude which is hostile to it. We can not attract opulence mentally by a poverty-stricken attitude which is driving away what we long for. We must think prosperity before we can come to it. What we have, not what we do not have.
Our circumstances in life, our financial condition, our poverty or our wealth, our friends or lack of them, our condition of harmony or discord, are all very largely the offspring of our thought. And we have the power to change this.
Success comes through a perfectly scientific mental process. The man who becomes prosperous believes that he is going to be prosperous. He has faith in his ability to make money. He does not start out with his mind filled with doubts and fears, and all the time talk poverty and think poverty, walk like a pauper and dress like a pauper. He turns his face towards the thing he is trying for and is determined to get, and will not allow its opposite picture in his mind.
The man who expects prosperity is constantly creating money in his mind, building his financial structure mentally. There must be a mental picture of the prosperity first; the building around it is comparatively easy.
To be prosperous we must put ourselves in the prosperous attitude, in a bring mode. We must think as a prosperous being, we must feel opulent in thought; we must exhale confidence and assurance in our very bearing and manner. Our mental attitude towards the thing we are striving for and the intelligent effort we put forth to realize it, will measure our attainment.
The man who would succeed must think success, must think upward. He must think progressively, creatively, constructively, inventively, and above all, optimistically.
The mental attitude which we hold toward our work or our aim has everything to do with what we accomplish.
Many positive minds become negative by influences which destroy their self-confidence. They gradually lose faith in themselves.
The whole philosophy of efficiency and happiness consist in the vigorous, consistent affirmation of the thing we are trying to be, and trying to do.
This is new moon in Gemini on May 28, 2014 is an excellent time to focus on writing, arranging important meetings, learning something new, and conversing with acquaintances in the local coffee spot.
This new moon in Gemini makes a challenging aspect to Neptune, the planet of illusion, so be careful of getting carried away with alcohol or drugs during this time. As intellectual and objective as the moon in Gemini can be, Neptune could bring heavy emotions and the desire to escape.
There is great energy for creative thinking and communication; however, Mercury/Neptune influences can be sensitive and could cause misunderstandings. Be mindful of what you say and listen closely to others. The higher form of the Neptunian influence is that it is great for creative appreciation for the arts — going to concerts, museums, watching movies, or reading a great book. It is also highly intuitive energy, which is excellent for meditating, chanting, and focusing on dreams.
The new moon is a clean slate and a time to write down intentions to manifest new beginnings. It is a great time to do the Law of Abundance. Here are the instructions for LOA for May 28, 2014.
Take a blank check and date it for the date of the new moon, May 28, 2014. Print out your name where it says, “Pay to the order of”, and then leave the small numeric box blank. On the next line, print, “PAID IN FULL,” and at the bottom where you normally sign your name, print “THE LAW OF ABUNDANCE. ” I wish you much luck and happiness. — Tisch (Jupiter in love-keen)
Lay your hand on each of the Chakras beginning at the Root chakra and the sacral chakra
at each point, slowly -breath in to the count of 8 and exhale to the count of 8
continue this with each chakra until you reach and complete the crown chakra
Balanced for the day!!!
– See more at: http://blog.lifereader.com/articles/2014/03/balancing-your-chakra.html#sthash.F3Sgna5H.dpuf
There is a big shift of energy occurring this week, and it will start to feel like life is finally moving forward. This is a week to take action and get positive results!
The Grand cross energy has lifted, and we are not out of the eclipse period. There have been lingering effects and changes from both, but life should start to feel more stable.
Mars, the planet of war, ambition, and drive, stationed direct on May 20th, 2014 at 9 degrees of Libra. Mars is in a very difficult placement in the relationship oriented sign of Libra, where it has been since December 8, 2013. To add to that, Mars was further debilitated when it went retrograde on March 2, 2014.
Mars in retrograde has put us all in review mode for the past couple of months; not to mention that it is very irritable in the sign of Libra. Now that Mars is direct, expect things to MOVE forward in a more fluid manner and expect to get results! Mars retrogrades once every two years, so we are done with that for a while now.
Pay attention to when Mars returns to 13 degrees of Libra on June 16, 2014. You might feel the energy a few days before and after the 16th. This was the degree of the Grand cross, which Mars set off on April 23, 2014. If there are certain issues you are still struggling with from the spring, June should help to bring closure and answers to these issues, which the Grand Cross summoned.
Another lucky combination that occurs this week is that Jupiter, the planet of expansion and abundance, makes a beautiful trine to Saturn, the planet of structure and responsibility. This energy began on March 19, 2014 and will impact us through May 29, 2014. This helps to bring form to goals, so now is the time to go for it! — Tisch ie Jupiter in love on keen
Old Fashioned safe Cleaner: Vinegar
I remember when I would go to my Grannys house at cleaning time, which was most of the time!! And everything smelled “clean”.
Not covered up with floral and ocean breeze, just clean.
Here is a sample of one of those good old cleaners!
- Fill a spray bottle with 1 part white vinegar and 1 part water for an all-purpose kitchen cleaner great for counters and floors.
- Prevent oven buildup and shower mildew by wiping down surfaces with a cloth and vinegar.
- Add 1/2 cup to the rinse cycle of your wash for a natural fabric softener.
- Use pure vinegar to get rid of rings in your toilet bowl.
- Mix 1 part vinegar with 4 parts water in a spray bottle for the perfect window cleaner.
- Use vinegar with a higher concentration of acetic acid for a pesticide-free weed killer. (Most household vinegar is 5% acetic acid, so look for 10% or higher at the hardware store.)
- and did you know, it can clean you inside also!! T’was said 1/4 cup of cider vinegar in a quart of water sipped daily was better than snake oil .
- from the daily well
Red stick candles bring energy. So it is safe to say that if you flip that candle and light it from the bottom the energy will go away.
The term “flipping a candle” first started with the Gypsies in Brussels. They would do this to not get caught committing a crime (do not use it for that however J).
If you want something to go away , take a red stick candle and cut the top off the candle so that you can properly place it in a candle holder. Cut the wax around the bottom so the wick is exposed. Place the candle upside down in the holder and light the wick you have exposed, releasing all negative energy around you. “Voila”! A good Day.
Flipping red candles with the intent to release negative energy can be done at any time. There is never a bad time to flip a red candle. I sometime do this before any other spell to remove any neg . in the room and try remember to do it whenever having a bad day. Good Luck and Bright Blessings.