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Soulmates, a reflection

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In a relationship, as in everything else, we get what we believe and ask for.  Actually what we feel we deserve!!

People in a relationship, be it soulmates, love relationship or friendship are always mirrors of each other in some way.

A relationship with another person is one of the most powerful tools we have for growth if we look at them realistically to see how

we have created them.

 

If you truly desire to have a deep fulfilling relationship, You have to believe it is possible.  You have to believe you deserve it, them and love.  And you have to treat you the way you want to be treated.  Be the best you, you can be.  (realize it is not that you do not deserve love but perhaps, this person is not reflecting the best you).

Below are some things you can do to help your relationship:

 

1. Look at your goals, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually

2. Take an honest (key word) look at what beliefs and attitudes you have about what is blocking YOU from having a deep relationship.  Write it down–the reason I can’t have a deep relationship or friendship with _______ is—–no no not what they do, what you do.

3. Use affirmations and visual images to change the “scene” into a positive, loving one,  Be willing to accept the good in you.

4. Use visualization to improve a difficult situation.  Talking together, taking turns listening.

If we put ourselves or our prospective partner in a box with a label with the way it should be, it can be very confining and limiting.

Human relationships are very complex.  They reflect our inner workings to help us to grow, it is not the partners job to heal or fix, only to reflect.

If  the relationship difficulties continue, it is a sign to look deeper into ourselves.

 

Sometime Insight from an outside person can help you to gain some clarity.

 

Remember  SOULMATES ARE MADE, NOT FOUND

Even if you feel you have found them, the relationship must be made.

Perhaps You are the soulmate you are looking for.

 

You deserve all there is, accept it

 

 

 

Psychic insight into Love, relationships to empower you to be the best YOU, can be

 

Soul Mates

We have many soul mates  This is caused usually by the splitting of a larger soul into sections. This makes the soul very recognizable and we feel “connected” to it as we are indeed part of it. We come back through many lives with the “other Part” of our soul ie soulmate to learn lessons through meetings and partings, you can say on some level we are all soul mates one with another, learning and growing.  Not all these lessons are loving or comforting.  Lessons in forgiveness and unconditional love are challenging.
Sometimes we are the “victim”, and sometimes we are the negative or mirror that shows another soul their light. This is where free will and choice comes into play, how we react or view our relationships. Someone can come into your life and cause you much pain and suffering because there is a soul agreement between you to grow and evolve in love and forgiveness.
This is one perception of karma and the “tit for tat” of the you did it to me Now I will do it to you that has gone on for lifetimes . You break the cycle by acting rather than reacting, by freeing the ego from the soul and learning to love and forgive. Mind you, this does not mean being stepped on as we must maintain some self respect but we may choose (if this is a negative karmic soulmate connection) to wish them well with love and release them.
Our greatest joy and our greatest pain are both conceived in these soul mate relationships, our feelings intensified by our soul connections, whether for good or bad. You can often spot a soul mate or karmic relationship by “love at first site” or “revulsion at first site”, depending upon the lessons you’ve contracted to learn from this soul.
One can live a lifetime in joy and harmony with a resonant soul mate, and this a beautiful, but rare gift.
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